Friday, December 12, 2008
Blogging When I SHOULD Be Studying For My Last Final :(
I can't stay on long tonight so no new reviews at the moment, however I will be home next week and plan on catching up on my neglected reading asap! Ohhh I DID actually find some time to read a new book! It's called "Dying For You" by Beverly Barton!! I will likely be posting on this book early on next week so keep an eye out =)
Well, I guess that's all there is to say really...I suppose I should go finish my laundry and hit the books again *and by "Hit the Books" I mean that both metaphorically and figuratively! I am coming very closer to doing some damage to those poor textbooks if this madness doesn't end soon! (keep your fingers crossed for my sanity)* ;)
Smile,
Cherie
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Bye Bye Midterms...Hello My Life (aka books heehee)!!
*Things with the boy (the one I mentioned before who I wasn't sure if I wanted friendship or more with) are going great! He's such a genuinely sweet person and I feel very comfortable with him =). However I'm a bit nervous because I've never had a real boyfriend before and am therefore a bit unexperienced when it comes to dating, kissing and just about everything else that goes with the boy-territory. *haha, tips and advice are greatly welcome here* ;)
*My phone has joined my alarm clock, computer, and printer in the game of "torture-cherie-by-refusing-to-work"...apparently this is yet another game I can not win at! So I now have to wait for a replacement phone to be sent, though it likely wont be for another 2 or 3 days :(
*I didn't do too well on my midterms, so even though they're behind me, I'm worried about my classes...
*I want to lose some weight around my tummy-hips area but dont know any good excercises that will help me to slim down without gaining muscle weight...
*I finally have some time this weekend to read! So that's how I'm spending my day today...trying to catch people online who I cant currently talk to on the phone and catching up on my poorly-neglected reading!
Something I just realized: I don't think I ever wrote reviews on Sherrilyn Kenyon's dark-hunter series. I'm currently working on Seize The Night (which is I believe the 7th book in the series) so I'm thinking I will either start posting on the first 6 tonight and post on the 7th when I finish it sometime this week or I may wait post on another book I've read in the not-too-too-distant past and wait to post on kenyon's series until I finish the 7th book later on this week...lol check back for what I decide ;)
Okay, well I suppose that about sums up my life at the moment...I'll post a review or so later on tonight...for now, I'm hitting the paperback books and not coming up for air until I need food (which will likely be soon if the tummy-grumbling is any indication haha)
Talk to you all soon ;)
Cherie
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Midterms are Killing Me!! *or it could be this cough that wont let me sleep at night!!*
And to top it off, I was sick all of last week and even though I'm feeling much better, there's this cough that remains and deems it appropriate to resurface with a vengeance at night as I attempt to fall asleep. For the last week I've only gotten 2-4 hours of sleep each night! Any suggestions for what I could take to knock me out but only for like 5 hours??
Anyways, obviously since I don't have time to read I can't review, however I'm going halloween costume shopping tommorow after my test and then I should be able to catch up on some reading and post a review or two...
Speaking of All Hallows Eve - what are all of you doing to celebrate the night? Are you (or your children) dressing up?? I'm going to this halloween party in the afternoon at a retirement home where Eva (the 89 year old woman I volunteer to spend time with) lives and then later on I'm going back to the boy's house I mentioned and we're having a horror movie marathon - complete with popcorn! I'm thinking about dressing up as an evil Lil Red Riding Hood, though still have to find a dress!
Hope to hear from y'all...! And in the off-chance that I am not able to come back on before Friday...Happy Halloween!!!
Cherie =)
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
I'm Sick :(
Ta Ta For Now...
Sunday, October 19, 2008
North and South-Love Story
I found this video on YouTube.com and loved it! WhoLetYouGo (the creater of the video) did an excellent job of matching the clips to the song...I love North 7 South and recommend both the novel and BBC movie to everyone!!
*Karen Chance ~ Midnight's Daughter*
Dorina Basarab is a dhampir—half-human, half-vampire. Subject to uncontrollable rages, most dhampirs live very short, very violent lives. So far, Dory has managed to maintain her sanity by unleashing her anger on those demons and vampires who deserve killing.
Now Dory’s vampire father has come back into her life. Her uncle Dracula (yes, the Dracula) infamous even among vampires for his cruelty and murderous ways, has escaped his prison. And her father wants Dory to work with the gorgeous master vampire Louis-Cesare to put him back there.
Vampires and dhampirs are mortal enemies, and Dory prefers to work alone. But Dracula is the only thing on earth that truly scares her, and when Dory has to go up against him, she’ll take all the help she can get…
I whispered my lips along his neck in a soft kiss, breathing in the warm, sweet scent of the man, the one my brain had stubbornly labeled butterscotch. His smile grew wider, softer, more genuine, forming dimples at the corners of his mouth. Curling a hand in the silken weight of his hair, I pressed still closer, until the curve of his ear was against my lips. 'You've underestimated me again.' ..."
Quick Note on my Hannah Howell Review!!
P.S. I just found out I can "follow" blogs haha...wow and I actually have a follower! Crazy cool! Thanks for liking my blog Britt :)
Boy-trouble, computer-trouble, and school-trouble...lol need I say more?
Alrighty, well Leigh Ann I know it's late in coming but I am going to write my review for Midnight's Daughter on here tonight (all I'm going to say in this message is...Chance has definitely not let us down haha). I also have a few other treats for y'all...so stay tuned ;).
Smiles,
From a Seriously Tired College Student
Friday, October 3, 2008
Wow school work has been heavy...
I'll be baaaaccccckkkkk....*menacing music plays in the background* ;)
Tag Time!!! *haha*
2. Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird.
3. Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs.
4. Let them know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.
Okay, about me *Evil Smile...heehee*
1) First and foremost I should warn you I am a book-addict...there I admitted it. I love the written word...it's my greatest escape from reality and I honestly cannot remember the last time I went even a day without reading for pleasure (even if I have to miss sleep to get in an hour or two). I am always reading something (90% of the time romance...more specifically historical and/or paranormal romances) and have the very bad habit of reading many books at one time. I'm likely to start reading a new book while reading three of my faves on the side haha. I also tend to reread my favorites *VERY OFTEN*...what can I say? I'm in love. ;)
2) I sleep with a tiny beanie-baby stuffed animal named Lucky (from 101 dalmations) that I got when I was 6 years old for Christmas...I don't NEED him to sleep but sleep more comfortably when I have him by my side.
3) I adore photography...it's just so remarkable to be able to capture a moment in time and treasure it always.
4) Whenever I am in stores and walk by the baby section I become transfixed and start picking out things in my mind that I want for my future children. Lol my younger sister has learned to try to steer me away from these parts of the stores, although she rarely succeeds. (I find I have a particular weakness for anything with the old fashioned Whinnie the Pooh characters on it)
5) My favorite candy is Rolo's (technically there's no "s" on the end but I always pronounce it this way lol) and I hate that most stores don't sale them!! What's a choco-holic to do?
6) I am a hopeless romantic...I fear I may have ruined my chances with men because my expectations are so incredibly high...I want true love and will settle for nothing less (in my opinion, if I'm going to reach for a star I might as well reach for the one who shines the brightest in my eyes)
7) My favorite part of sleeping is the time before I drift off when my dreams can come to life.
Alright now...who shall be the next victims?? Hmmm? =)
1) *Tiffi's Blog* - My little sister, because I share everything with her ;)
2) Book Minx - Because I love her reviews and her site is so amazing...lol *wish mine looked that nice*
3) Jess's Ramblings - Jess because her book blog is awesome and I know she'll have some great things to list about herself :)
4) Gena Showalter - One of my all-time favorite authors...not sure if she's been tagged yet but she should be =)
5) Pearl - Pearl gives some of the best book reviews I've ever read! She's given me some amazing books! *Thanks Pearl!!*
6) Wit And Sin - Because this site is excellent for finding the order of books and finding some new series to look into (which is a hard thing to do at times) :)
7) Hmmm...well Leigh A. B. would be here but she was the one who tagged me so I suppose I can't tag her back haha...Thanks for that! ;)
~Tag You're It Everyone!!!~
Sunday, September 28, 2008
*Hannah Howell ~ Beauty And The Beast*
Beauty And The Beast
On the eve of her wedding to the heir of Saiturn Manor, the stunningly beautiful Gytha is shocked to learn that her betrothed, a man she barely knew, is dead. Now she must marry the new heir, Thayer Saturn, a battle-hardened knight known as the Red Devil...
With a face scarred in battle and a heart broken in love, Thayer has no interest in marriage. But not even the Red Devil can break the promise his foster-father made years ago and soon finds himself married to a woman whose exquisite beauty and sweet innocence intrigue him. But can his new bride look beyond his scars to find a hidden passion and undying love locked deep inside him?
Saturday, September 27, 2008
*Karen Chance ~ Cassandra Palmer, Clairvoyant Series (Books 1-3)*
The spell that binds them can only be broken with an incantation found in the Codex Merlini, an ancient grimoire. The Codex’s location has been lost in the present day, so Cassie will have to seek it out in the only place it can still be found—the past.
But Cassie soon realizes the Codex has been lost for a reason. The book is rumored to contain some seriously dangerous spells, and retrieving it may help Cassie to deal with Mircea, but it could also endanger the world…
I'm Sorry, I'm Sorry, I'm Sorry...
Hope you all like it!
Smile,
Cherie
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
My Beach!!!
My Dorm Room!! *I got a single*
Back From Being MIA For An Eternity...
Sorry it's been so long since my last post. There was some serious financial aid issues I had to work out on top of packing for college so I didn't have much time to do much of anything but college stuff last month. However, I am now officially settled in here at beautiful UCSB (University of Santa Barbara, California) and am loving it. I moved in on Saturday and already feel at home (well as at home as I ever will when away from my family and friends). It is so amazingly beautiful here. The beach is honest to God only a 2 minute walk from my room!! And there's usually only 3 or 4 other students out there so it's nice and calm and peaceful. The only way I can describe it is 'magical'. I have some pictures of my dorm and the beach for you guys which I will post in a few short moments. I have a lot of books to review although not as many as I would have hoped due to being so busy with moving away from home and such. Oh, I also turned 18 exactly 10 days ago so *YAY*!! I wont start on my reviews until tonight because I am accustomed to writing them around midnight, but I promise they will get written. =)
It's good to be back blogging!!
Cherie
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
*Lora Leigh ~ Tha Man Within (Feline Breeds Series Book 2)*
He had protected her as a child, filled all her teenaged fantasies and stole her womanly heart, only to break it.
Now, fifteen months later, the news has released. The man she loves is one of the genetically altered Feline Breeds who have shocked the world with their presence. He’s also her mate. The mark on her neck attests to that. The fire that rages in her heart and in her body further proves it. But he hadn’t wanted her then; does he really want her now?
Deceit and treachery, born in the past, now haunt the present as Taber and Roni fight to make sense of a sudden bonding. The mating of heart, body and soul as the man and the beast within merge; both battling the forces raging against the union and dominance over the woman he claimed.
Sunday, August 17, 2008
*Lora Leigh ~ Tempting The Beast (Feline Breeds Series Book 1)*
Callan Lyons is a genetic experiment. One of six fighting for freedom and the survival of their Pride. Merinus Tyler is the reporter who will tempt him, draw him, until the fury of the “mating frenzy” locks them into a battle of sexual heat there is no escape from.
Deception, blood, and the evil Genetics Council are hot on their trail. Callan will use his strength to try and save them both…and do all in his power to keep his woman in the process.
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*My Review*
I have never been the type of person to enjoy erotic novels - I am too desperate of a romantic to enjoy a relationship that doesn't end in deep, true love. So Lora Leigh's Feline series definitely caught me off guard!! This novel, while definitely erotic, should absolutely be categorized in the romance section! It had all of the steam, excitement and sensuality of erotica combined with the charming, enthralling, head-over-heels, soul-mate love that every romantic desires. And now add to that combo, a wonderfully original storyline, witty dialogue, and truly amazing writing and you've got yourself a keeper baby!
The relationship between Callan and Merrinus will draw you in and sink its claws into you from the first page, refusing to extract them until the very satisfying ending. Merrinus is a strong-willed, passionate, intelligent woman who (thanks to having been raised by an overprotective all-male family) is more than able to hold her own against the wildness within her man. Callan is the possesive, dominant, delicious alpha-male from every woman's fantasy whose fierce loyalty and love for his family and mate will capture the heart of every reader (so beware! haha).
I truly love how Lora Leigh managed to introduce so many background characters in a way that causes the reader to practically beg to read their individual stories while not treading over the toes of Callan and Merrinus' story. I will also admit that I am a sucker for the protective older brother bit and boy does this story have it...I mean how could it not when our heroin has 7 older brothers and a dad - all who are powerful, sexy and deadly lol. I love the relationship between Kane (Merrinus' eldest brother and father-like figure) and Merrinus.
Tempting The Beast has become one of my favorites (I'm dying to continue the series!!). The relationship between Callan and Merrinua is simply beautiful and sensual and lovely in every possible way and I strongly urge every romantic to give it a try. Believe me, it's worth it.
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*Excerpt*
"She jerked as she felt her cell phone vibrating at her hips. She grimaced impatiently. She knew who it was. It had to be her oldest, most aggravating brother.
'What Kane?' she hissed as she flipped the phone open and settled it against her ear. ...
'It could have been dad,' Kane reminded her, his voice flat and hard.
'It could have been the pope too, but we know the averages on that one,' she muttered.
'Bitch,' he growled almost affectionately.
'Why Kane, how sweet,' she simpered. 'I love you too, asshole.'
There was a bried chuckle over the line, making her smile in response. ..."
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"Callan watched her go, hiding his smile as she glanced back at him. Damn, she looked fine, he thought. And she was definitely on the hunt. A flare of regret rose in him as he admitted he would have definitely enjoyed the chase if circumstances were different. If he wasn't who he was, if his own life wasn't hanging by luck alone, then he could have enjoyed a game or two. And he'd be damned if that woman didn't look good enough to play with. It made his mouth water, looking at all the smooth, sexy skin, just faintly tanned and as tempting as sin itself."
Finally!!!
Ok...well now to celebrate my return I think some book reviews should be posted...what do ya think?
Yeah I thought you'd agree ;)
Hmmm...which books to review...hmmm...choices, choices...
Stay Tuned *haha*,
Cherie
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Sorry Bout the Delay...
My volunteering at the Friends of the Library has become a weekly thing, I'm glad to report, and I have found some interesting new books to read. I'll come on tonight once the house is nice and quiet and post a couple of reviews.
Until then... ;)
Tuesday, August 5, 2008
*Karen Hawkins ~ MacLean Curse Series*
CAN SHE?
Shy, quiet Regency miss, Fiona MacLean, must save her brothers from becoming embroiled in a centuries old feud that could mean the death of them all. All she has to do is commit one, teeny, tiny, barely noticeable . . . crime.
WILL HE?
Sinfully handsome Black Jack Kincaid has spent his entire life philandering with other men's willing wives, trying to forget beautiful, wilful Fiona MacLean, so he's shocked when he awakens one day and discovers himself married to that very lass! Will he help her save her brothers and end a centuries old family feud? Can he accept being married to the woman who broke his heart so many years ago? And now that he has her, can he afford to let her go?
To Scotland, With Love:
When Lord Gregor MacLean learns a fortune hunter has abducted his childhood friend, Venetia Oglivie, he rides off to Scotland in hot pursuit. If he doesn’t rescue the provocative wench swiftly, she’ll be ruined by scandal! But when an irate Gregor catches up w ith the supposed-damsel-in-distress, arrogantly expecting a hero’s welcome, the sparks between him and strong-willed Venetia fly. While they’re trapped by an unexpected snowstorm, those sparks grow so hot they threaten to burn down the inn! Now if Gregor can only convince Venetia that his motive for marriage isn’t duty . . . but desire!
To Catch A Highlander:
When her father gambles away the family estate to darkly dangerous Lord Dougal MacLean, Sophia MacFarlane is determined to use her wiles to regain it. Forced to stake the one thing she has left -- her virtue -- she desperately hopes her skill can limit her losses to a few kisses...no matter how hotly tempting Dougal turns out to be.
Dougal MacLean knows that Sophia has some trick up her sleeve, but he can't resist the challenge -- or her ravishing beauty. So when she proposes a card game with most unusual stakes, Dougal is delighted to accept. But as the game ends, Dougal and Sophia discover they've wagered something even more precious -- their hearts.
Unfortunately, fate had dealt them a short hand, and they were doomed to a brief, though brilliant relationship. He would have to be satisfied with that.
He stared, unable to look away as her gown caressed the curve of her breasts, full and round. He imagined how they'd fill his hands. He could easily span her petite waist, and the curve of her hips seemed made for his hands. She slowly pushed her hair aside, the golden strands clinging to her neck and shoulders. He didn't blame them; he'd be loathe to part from such glorious skin himself.
As she met his gaze, he was caught by the seductive light in her eyes. By Zeus, she was enjoying this. Savoring it, even. The idea made his breath tighten in his chest and he realized that he was gripping his glass so tightly that it was in danger of cracking.
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Hello There :)
Unfortunately I haven't had much time to read as of late (a horrendous crime indeed) however, luckily I was able to snag a few hours today and am planning on stay up late tonight to catch up haha. I am still working my way thru Chance's C. Palmer Clairvoyant series while also juggling a few historical romances (I can never seem to go too long without reading a historical lol). I also finally broke down and ordered Lora Leigh's Tempting the Beast and The Man Within (the first 2 books in her Feline Breeds series) because I have been unable to get my hands on them threw the stores nearby and am desperate to own them! I "accidently" *cough cough* read the second book (Taber and Roni's story) first and am now dying to read the first one and am greedily anticipating owning The Man Within. With any luck they should be arriving here tommorow *fingers crossed*.
I finally got my mini fridge for my dorm (managed to snag one on craigslist for only $50...perfect size, great condition and even in the color I had hoped for). Now I have only some minor odds and ends to deal with before moving on to become a full-time college student. Still can't believe how soon I'll be having to leave :(...hmmm...best not to think about it for too long lol.
I should be finishing Devils Bride by Stephanie Laurens tonight (this is the first novel I've ever read by her - an impulsive buy - but so far I've loved it! I'll post a review tonight after I finish it) ;)
As my friend Mary would say "Ta!!"
Cherie =)
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Bad Habits Tend To Come Back To Bite You In The 'Arse'
At the moment I am still working on Karen Chance's Cassandra Palmer Series (I LOVE THESE BOOKS!!! But am having trouble focusing on them at the moment because I have already read the first two many times over and, while I am head over heels for them, I still find myself distracted by all of the books I have yet to read.) On top of Chance I am also working on Karen Hawkins' MacLeans' novels (I feel so horrible because I had actually read them out of order-unknowingly of course-and so now I am reading them in the correct order.) From what I have already read these books are supremely fabulous and this series is already in my top 5 historical romance series list...in fact I daresay it might possibly fall in my top 3 list (high praise indeed). ;)
Ok so here's a quick update on the going-ons in my life:
* My uncle from Germany is paying us a visit so we're all making sure to spend some quality time with him.
*I am still preparing for UCSB - it seems as though there's always something else to be done in regards to preparing for being there. I tremble in imagining what the actual being there will be like.
*I found out my speeding ticket will cost just under $100 so not great but definitely not as horrific as I imagined it would be - plus the amount I will have to spend on traffic school to get it off my driving record.
*I am currently volunteering at the used bookstore I told you about so long ago (not the quaint shop with the cats but the Friends of the Library store whose profits go to the public library and whose prices will tempt you to take up permanent residence within its walls). It looks as though I will be volunteering there every Tuesday! :) I really enjoyed my first day of volunteering yesterday; the volunteers are all in their 60's and 70's so the company is darling and the shop itself has this comfortable feeling to it. Plus (the true bonus): I get a sneak peek at all of the books before they get on the shelves on Friday hee hee. I've already found three books that I intend to buy by the end of the week.
*I also went to see The Dark Knight with my uncle today. It had to have been one of the best movies I've seen all year and I definitely suggest it to anyone and everyone - especially if you are a Batman fan like I am. I Love The Bat! Haha.
Well I guess that's all for now...I'm going to shut down my computer now and loose myself in the pages of one of my books...I'll post a review for Hawkin's MacLeans series as soon as I finish them (in order) which should be very soon indeed. Hope you have a wonderful day/evening.
Sweet Dreams,
Cherie
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Found Some Time :)
I found some more time to come online so thought I'd post an update. Since you last heard from me I completed orientation, scheduled my Fall classes *getting none of the ones I wanted, so my first quarter of college is already starting out great huh?*, went to the San Diego Zoo (for the very first time) with my sister and uncle-for anyone who has yet to go it is really great. They have an amazing variety of animals including a panda and her adorable pup, elephants, polar bears, wild cats, giraffes, bears, birds, pigs, and some fiesty apes. We had a blast and got some amazing photos...I'll post up some of the best ones on here soon. And today the three of us went to Sea World (again for the first time) and had a great time. We went mainly for the shows and boy were they wonderful!! We got wet at the Shamu show, yet surprisingly it was the Dolphin show that completely drenched us *go figure* haha, and the Clyde and Seamore (Sealion) show is absolutely one of the cutest shows you are ever likely to see. Again, I will post photos (or possibly even video if I can figure out how to swing it) of our day soon.
Basically I've had four days of all-day long walking about *which has greatly diminished my guilt over any and all fatty foods I've eaten during this vaca*. I will *thankfully* be returning home tommorow, where I will likely shower and then dive beneath my comforter and escape into my loving world of literature. I've enjoyed the trip but I can not wait to be home again lol.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Still At Orientation...
Well I am still at UCSB Orientation - it's a 2 day thing where if you pay extra you get to sleep in the dorms and get a real taste of what life is going to be like shortly. So far this has been the ONLY break I've gotten (I do not consider sleeping a break seeing as how they even scheduled that!) I've been running all around campus, being shuffled from place to place. Have you ever seen UC Santa Barbara's campus?? Lets just say I'll probably be down to a size 2 within my first week of classes!! My legs are STILL sore from all of the walking around and climbing up and down the stairs (my temp. dorm is on the 3rd floor) all day yesterday! And guess what? I get to do it all again!! Yippie!! *haha I'm not sarcastic, no, not at all...lol*. Anyways, thus far at Orientation I have gone on tours, gotten my student photo ID Card, gone to lectures, gone to meetings, climbed the stairs to and from my dorm about twenty million times, showered in a dorm bathroom *one of my biggest fears regarding college...sharing bathrooms with strangers*, sampled the lunch and breakfast options in the Dining Commons, and have worked on putting together a course schedule that will work for me...although this is unfortunately not going as smoothly as I would have liked.
I must say one of the best things about having come to this orientation though, was waking up this morning and having the first thing I see out my window be the ocean. It's so peaceful here in the mornings. I'm looking out my window now and am simply basking in the serenity of it all. From my temporary dorm room you have a perfect view of the water and can just ever so slightly hear the crashing of the waves. I know for a fact that living so close to the ocean will be a strange experience for me, however I have a strong feeling it will be one of my favorite aspects of being at UCSB.
Alright well, unfortunately now I have to go to another lecture/meeting (which means getting up and walking down the many flights of stairs to the bottom and then continuing to walk from my doorm hall to the meeting place, where we will then walk with our advisory groups to the meeting...sounds like fun huh? Well I should probably hop to it then. I'll come back online a.s.a.p.
Affectionately,
Cherie
P.S. I am currently rereading Karen Chance's Cassandra Palmer Series (as I surely mentioned a few posts ago) but have had to put it on hold thanks to orientation. I am having some serious reading withdrawls here. Luckily however I am being picked up by my uncle and sister tonight sand then we are making our way to San Diego (and I am NOT driving this time, which means, I will get some reading time *YAY*. I'll keep ya posted on my progress...ttfn =)
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Blog Might Be Slim-Pickings For The Next Week Or So...
I just finished reading To Catch A Highlander last night and wowsers!! I will try to post a review tonight because I doubt I'll find the time tommorow and this book sooo deserves a shout-out. =)
I am currently rereading Karen Chance's ABSLUTELY BRILLIANT AND BREATHTAKING Cassandra Palmer Series because I feel I need a brush up before (finally) reading the third novel!! And since I read those novels before I started this blog, I have yet to post any reviews on them so be prepared for a full out review bonanza on Karen Chance here in the near future ;)
Ok well I suppose that's all for now...TTFN :)
*Kerrelyn Sparks ~ The Love At Stake Series*
The Undead Next Door: Three signs that something is very DIFFERENT with your new man: